I hate how people will tell you to be the poster child for appreciating inner beauty, while they themselves date Greek gods.
Being that humans exist in a state that makes us unable to scientifically confirm the existence of God, I think being an agnostic makes more sense than being an atheist.
Funny how someone who is gay can hate homosexuality just as much as people who are not gay.
Looking good and being healthy have not been very good motivations for working out. Being strong enough to survive is….
I’m very much a lone wolf. I need to embrace that.
I’ve sometimes dreamt of being in a vocal group with my 3 brothers. Being that we’re related, our vocal blend would be bananas.
I have an aunt who’s a dead ringer for Loretta Devine. No lie.
Based on my experience, men are only good for sex. And most of them aren’t even really that good.
That last thought is pretty interesting. Could it be that because you hold that belief, you (probably unconsciously) choose men who reflect those things as opposed to challenge them? I don’t assume you think that of yourself.
Hmm. I think that my experiences have given rise to this belief, rather than this belief shaping my experiences. I used to think that it was possible to relate to other men in a variety of ways, but it seems like it always boils down to sex. Time and time again, the success of my interactions with men have always depended on how sexually attractive they found me. I think the notion that men are only good for sex is a mechanism to manage my expectations in the future.
I see. So under what circumstances are you meeting these men that have lead you to this conclusion?
On the internet and in person at clubs and house parties.
Are you appearance and sex focused? And would you say you trade on your looks and sex appeal to draw in men as well?
Hmm. I like sex, but it doesn’t rule my thinking when it comes to relating to other men. I can appreciate physical beauty, but I value a good personality and strong principles way more. I can’t say that I trade on my looks and sex appeal; in fact, I’m rather insecure about my looks. However, I’ve encountered enough men that have been physically attracted to me to conclude that I must be a physically attractive in some way. It’s not something that I believe intuitively, it’s just something that I accept because it’s been said or conveyed to me enough times. I think I actually trade on my intelligence, conversational skills and calm-on-the-surface demeanor to draw in men.
That’s so interesting to me because to say that you think men are only good for sex would lead one to believe that you’re sex focused. People tend to manifest the very things that they think about often. Perhaps it has something to do with where you’re located or what you’re attracted to. I’m sorry if im giving you the 3rd degree lol
Lol it’s all good. That statement just represents my frustration with men in general. It seems like getting casual sex has been easy, but trying to get to know someone in any other way is fraught with great difficulty. I’ve often wondered whether my approach, my looks or my location are responsible. But I made that comment as a 26 year old man who is frustrated with the difficulty in finding a decent guy to date. I hope I didn’t give the impression that I’m some shallow, vainglorious douche that hooks up with dozens of guys a month. I should probably clarify my position in a future post.
Sweetie I got to respond (Do you KNOW how moody you are!?)
LOL the ones dating Greek Gods are either A) Greek Gods themselves (yuck). B) Are thankful that their Greek Gods were the ones to appreciate inner beauty, and they know they have to pay the favor forward.
Agnostic is the most LOGICAL choice…but life isn’t always logical and it’s more human nature to place our belief/faith in something bigger than ourselves (we just aren’t alway sure what or by who to call that bigger being.)
Gay, Str8, blk, Purple. it don’t matter, usually there are things they people don’t like about other that they also don’t like about themselves…..lol usually.
I resent the lone wolf comment….I thought you had a BigBro and surrogate brothers? That comment might get you disowned! LOL!
Can your brothers Sing??? I’m coming to that concert! And I want to meet this Aunt….Lorretta Divine may be her “stage name” and she did not tell you she’s Famous to keep the family from asking for money!
I resent this statement also….for multiple reasons!