One of my readers, YB&DL, had asked me a couple of questions regarding my Tangled Web post. If you haven’t already read it, go back and do so. Everything will make a lot more sense if you do. The questions were more or less 1. had I ever talked to Joe about the fact that we both had screwed Tyrone and Tyson? and 2. considering how tangled the web was, had I ever heard anything unflattering about anybody in the web? The short answers to both of those questions are yes and yes. The long answer follows.
Tyson – This is a dude I met in April of 2007. He was a DL frat dude and our whole interaction started off as a hook up in his dorm room. He was attractive physically (think Common), but I wasn’t into him in a romantic sense. We continued talking and fucking regularly, but we lost touch after a while. We reconnected in April of 2008 and I found out that he had liked me a lot and went through this big depression because he felt I had led him on. I had been aware that he liked me, but I didn’t feel the same way about him and made it clear (I thought) that we were just friends with benefits.
Tyrone – Tyrone is a dude that I met in the summer of 2007. That summer was my “cruel summer” where I was very isolated from my friends and going through a serious dry spell in terms of dating. I met Tyrone from a4a and we decided to meet up at his place. When I got there, I was pleasantly surprised. Tyrone was 6′0, dark-skinned, very muscular build, nice smile — very attractive. Looked nothing like his picture, which was a good thing this time around. We chatted and winded up fucking, but I was rather disappointed and unsatisfied because he was literally a one-minute man. It was a good minute, but it was left me seriously unsatisfied and annoyed. After that one hook-up, things didn’t really pop off between us and he just became another notch on my bedpost.
Joe – This is a dude I met in November of 2006. He is an friend/rival of mine. I guess you could call him a frenemy. I like him sometimes and I absolutely can’t stand the dude at other times. He can be a real nice guy or shady as hell, depending on his mood . I don’t really trust him, but I keep him around for my own entertainment (at arms length of course). We became cool and started hanging out after we met, but in February of 2007, Joe disappeared on me. He stopped answering my calls and eventually his line was disconnected. I hadn’t yet been to his place, so I couldn’t go and check on him. At the time I thought this fool must have died or he got a boyfriend. Either way, I just said fuck it and kept it moving. Somehow (I can’t remember anymore) we reconnected in early 2008, at which point he told me the disappearing act was because he had been going through s0me hardcore bullshit with some dude he was dating. After he explained to me the shit the dude did(we’ll call him Pedo), I told him flat out to get rid of the dude. But of course, he said he was too in love with Pedo to let go. Whatever. After that, I went through a rough and crazy period myself and we kind of fell out of contact. We reconnected again in October of 2008 and decided to go get dinner so we could catch up.
Joe and I met up at ******’s and started catching up and what not over some drinks. He told me all of the bullshit he was still going through with Pedo. He also mentioned that sex with Pedo was garbage, so he had started fucking with this dude that his ex Will (oops hehe) had introduced him to. Joe started having sex with this new dude and was using that to cope with his crumbling relationship with Pedo. He started to describe the new dude and I was like damn he sounds sexy. Then he said the dude’s name was Tyrone and mentioned the fact that the dude couldn’t last in bed. Immediately, I told him that I knew a dude just like that with the same name. I told him where my Tyrone lived and what he drove and we both concluded that we had fucked the same dude.
Being that Joe is my frenemy, I made it seem like I had gotten bored with Tyrone and tossed him because he was a one-minute man (which isn’t quite how it happened). I was very dismissive and nonchalant about it, but I basically rubbed it Joe’s face that he was enjoying my sloppy seconds. I know he wasn’t exactly happy about the fact, even though he tried unsuccessfully to pretend that everything was cool. As the dinner went on, it also came up that Tyson was Joe’s ex. I was surprised at this and immediately let him know that me and Tyson had fucked numerous times. I also let Joe know that I had no idea Tyson even knew him. Since this was Joe’s ex, I didn’t try to rub it in his face, but I put everything on the table. He said he had no problem since they had broken up before I met Tyson. He also told me that Tyson used to beat the shit out of him when they were together and had the scars on his face to prove it. I was thrown for a loop, because Tyson seemed very easy-going and didn’t look like the Chris Brown type at all.
Anyway, I could tell that Joe wasn’t entirely feeling the fact that I had fucked another dude he had been involved with. In fact, after that dinner, I noticed that he started acting shady and jealous. Anytime I would mention anybody I was talking to or fucking, he would quickly try to change the subject, when before he always wanted to know all of the details of it. He made it a point to text me everytime he was about to go fuck Tyrone or in the middle of fucking Tyrone. I didn’t sweat it, I would just reply back “hit me up in a minute when you’re done.” He would also text me to “complain” that Tyson (his ex) was hitting him up with raunchy messages. It seemed innocent, but it was obvious Joe was trying to rub that shit in my face. Like I said, I could tell he wasn’t cool with the fact I had fucked 3 2 dudes he had messed with. Funny, considering he was the one that told me “everyone messes with everyone, so be careful.” I should also mention that Joe is a self-proclaimed light-skinned pretty boi (wtf is that?) and has a superiority complex because of that. He even told me that he knows a lot of dudes would be after him because he has light skin. Okaaaay. I’ve sometimes wondered whether his jealousy and shadiness are rooted in the fact that a dark-skinned dude like me was pulling just as many (and some of the same) dudes that he does. Hmm, I guess I shouldn’t tell him that I fucked his other ex Will. That would take our fucked-up, unspoken rivalry to a whole new level. More to come.
Just my type of dude. Enjoy.