Speaking of rejection….

I was on that delicious treasure trove known as bgclive today and I rejected someone and then was rejected by someone else all in a matter of minutes!  The first dude I rejected was an overeager 19 year-old that kept bombarding me with messages. That was a turn-off. He also had ass pics as his main pictures. Not necessarily a bad thing, unless your ass is flabby and unattractive, like his was. And I have to digress and say that people, if your body is unappealing (you know who you are), don’t show it off. It looks silly when you’re wearing a thong with mounds of fat hanging off. I have nothing against fat people, but I believe that everyone should dress (or undress) according to their body. Having a less-than-stellar body is not a crime, but flaunting that crap is!

Back to the 19 year-old from bgc….like I said, I wasn’t really feeling him, but I didn’t want to be an asshole so I answered all his excessive messages. Then he wanted to see my pics. See, all my pics on that wonderful fountain of quality are private pictures, and I’m kinda selective about who I show them to. If you ask to see my pics, you gotta have yours open, or I won’t show them to you. If you come across as clingy, messy or stalkerish, then I definitely won’t show them to you. I told him that if he wanted to see mine, he should unlock his first. It’s only fair. He did, and I wasn’t feeling him. Not that he looked that terrible, but he didn’t look good enough to mitigate the fact that he was too young and clingy for me. So opening my pics was out of the question. So I told him point blank that I wasn’t interested. He wanted to know why. I told him that I didn’t find him attractive. He wanted to go back and forth and just as I was about to block him, he took his leave.

What happened next was karma working. I saw this nice-looking guy online. I noticed that he had a 100 page essay in his profile. I should have already known this wasn’t gonna go anywhere; from my experience, dudes with novels for profiles are full of crap. But I read that garbage anyway and decided to hit up his long-winded ass. We exchanged a few messages and then he wanted to see my pics. His precise words were “Blah blah blah so unlock pic guy,” which I found to be incredibly corny for some reason. Any, I unlocked my shit and he responded that he thought I was cute. Obviously not cute enough though, because after a few messages, he stopped responding.  I could see that he had opened my last message, which contained a question, but there was no answer. I sent another message to try and jumpstart the convo, but still got nothing, so I’m considering it a rejection.

Then I got hit up by another late 30’s dude that I had met a few weeks ago. When he first hit me up a few weeks ago, he professed his desire for friends and meaningful relationship and blah blah BLAH. I said I was interested in the same, and after some chatting I decided, stupidly, to meet him at his place. I got there and we made some small talk. Everything was ok until he started saying he wanted to fuck me bareback. Wow, what an awesome deal! Having bareback sex with a total stranger! I mean, it’s not like HIV is really that common among black gay men anyway! And even if he has HIV, it’s not like I’ll get it because he swore he wouldn’t come in me! I was totally disgusted and started to leave. He starts begging me to stay and pr Fast-forward a few weeks to today. Just after I got rejected by E.Lynn Harris 2, this guy hit me up again talkin’ all that friendship crap again. Then he asked to see my pics, so I concluded that he had forgotten he’d already hit me up or maybe was hoping that I had forgotten. In any case, I just flat out ignored him.

So as you can see I’m 0 for 3. Those stats can only lead me to one conclusion. I LOVE BGC!!!